Your guide to

Diva’s Dungeon

Our free private Dungeon is an elite Femdomme group hosted in Kik, with a fun and friendly atmosphere.
We provide challenging tasks and an open forum for conversation and learning. Our topics and tasks cover a wide range of Kinks from Anal play, Feminization, CBT, Bondage, Humiliation, and much more.

Before You Start

If you haven’t already, please take a look at our home page where you can learn more about us and our values. This is not a group you should blindly enter, set yourself up for success by learning more about us.

The Dommes

Head Mistress | Founder

👑 Mistress Michelle

Located in the 12th Hobbit Hole, behind the purple door in Hobbiton, has a huge passion for BDSM, and started this group as a way for like-minded people to meet participate in a tight knit community. Mistress Michelle leads the entire group through tasks as well as organizing, running and mentoring subs. As well, she creates the tasks, discussion topics, and exciting games that make this group so great


🧜‍♀️ Madam Ondine

She loves to support and educate those who put in the time and effort to earn her it. That said, she is also quick to discard those who fail to take her seriously, and has a slightly sadistic sense of humor.


💖 Lady A

I love building genuine relationships that help subs grow. I am sensual and caring, but have a firm hand when necessary. Oh, and I do not tolerate anything less than your best.

The Rules

  1. You must be a submissive or slave 21-50 years old (age is at our discretion)
  2. Alcohol:
    1. Zero tolerance for alcohol during or up to 8 hours prior to doing any tasks, scenes, or any form of BDSM Play.
    2. There is a limit of two standard alcoholic drinks only if you wish to still chat in the Dungeon or with a Domme.
  3. Drugs (including marijuana): zero tolerance, you will be removed from the dungeon permanently.
  4. You must be willing to use all holes
  5. You must be respectful to ALL group members at all times.
  6. No kink shaming is permitted.
  7. What a Domme says goes. No arguments.
  8. All Dommes must be addressed correctly by their preferred name at all times. Correct capitalization is required.
  9. Subs must own a butt plug and dildo. Real sex toys only, no household items.
  10. You must be committed, open to learning and trying new things.
  11. You are NOT to PM anyone without a Dommes permission. Keep it in the group.
  12. You must not show, share, save, or repost any members videos pictures, names or Kik ID ever. Instant ban!
  13. You must be available 1-2 hours per day minimum to be a committed group member.
  14. You must contribute to general group chat daily.
  15. You must take part in ALL compulsory topics and tasks.
    1. Failure to do so will result in removal from the group for non-participation.
    2. If you are unable to complete a task prior to the deadline you must discuss this with a Domme.
  16. The trial period ends if/when
    1. A Domme wants to Mentor you OR
    2. You have impressed us enough to be made into a permanent Dungeon sub.
  17. Mentored subs must follow and complete any additional requests, tasks, rules, or requirements given to you by your Mentor.
  18. Permanent Dungeon subs must abide by the protocols set and must follow any additional requests, tasks, rules, or requirements given by any Domme.
  19. Chastity is compulsory. No playing with yourself unless it’s required for a task, a reward or you have permission from your Mentor/Mistress.
    1. If you cum without permission you will be placed in chastity for a minimum of 30 days.
    2. A chastity cage/belt may be required.
  20. You must be open and honest with all members of Divas Dungeon. Lies will not be tolerated.
  21. All subs must know their soft and hard limits and be ready to post them on request.
  22. Safewords: the Dungeon respects and encourages the use of safe words green, yellow, and red.
  23. The Dungeon practices SSC/RACK protocols. All members of the Dungeon must follow these protocols at ALL times.
  24. All subs must abide by these rules at all times while they are a member of Divas Dungeon.

Frequently Asked Questions

Is there financial commitment?

No – the Dungeon is free, this is Findom free group. We do this for the love and passion for lifestyle BDSM and are morally opposed to financial domination.

Why is showing my face required to join?

Seeing your face is required to verify your age, and that you are real – it is not required during tasks

BDSM/Toys are illegal in my country, can I join?

No – it is not safe for you and could put the Dungeon at risk

Are both a dildo and plug are Required.

Yes – You will not be able to go through the screening without already owning both, that doesn’t mean getting one today. You must be comfortable using both toys before joining.

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The Steps


Welcome Guide

Read everything on the page and submit the form at the end to confirm consent and understanding.


The Application

After answering a few questions you will fill out a thorough application that will tell us more about you. You can think of it like submitting a resume for a job.



Upon review of your application you will invited to a private kik room with the Dommes and admins. You will be given a set of tasks that show you are capable of keeping up with those given in the dungeon, and asked questions to get to know you and understand your journey better.

 Sub Behavior

  • No foul Language.
  • OK, Sure, Fine, Alright, any other one word answers will come off lazy and show disinterest. Only speak in complete sentences, as stated above communication is the foundation of BDSM.
  • Correct capitalization is required, all names and titles should have proper capitalization and should not be shortened.
    • Domme, sub
    • Nobody should be referred to as miss, Mistress, goddess, ext… only full names and titles.
    • If you are unsure of how to refer to someone it is polite to ask.
  • Don’t be thirsty! It’s okay to ask questions but asking for tasks, unnecessary PMs and talking about how horny you are will extend your wait or get you removed.
  • Follow the Dungeon rules starting Now!

Complete Step One!

Dommes looking to join

This is a free Femdomme group. We are not interested in wasting time talking to any Findommes.

If you are a friendly Domme that works well with other Dommes, is interested in mentoring subs, writing creative tasks, having fun kinky chats and has time to spare daily we would love to hear from you. We are also happy to consider taking on apprentice Dommes with the right attitude and skill set.
Simply enter our Kik screening room, inform us of Your role and preferred title, and we will help connect You with one of the Dommes here for a separate screening process.

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