Being such an animal

Sometimes it’s obvious what Mistress is thinking and sometimes it’s easier to ask. When i don’t know and i don’t ask, i usually get told. What submissive doesn’t like being told what to do right? That’s not what i am told. I am told what i need, through verbal and non verbal cues i am […]

Tearing you a new one

We are exploring the nature of torture this week and its many purposes and types within BDSM. There is a connection often drawn between punishment and torture that intrigues me, partly because i enjoy torture in a very primal sense, to suffer for Her would bring me pleasure if it did for Her as well. […]

Putting boys in blue

I remember going to a store with my mother and she wanted me to pick out wallpaper. It would be too expensive to decorate the whole room, so it was just a trim at the ceiling i was choosing, and the typical choices were cars, planes, sports items, etc. but i chose rainbows.  It was […]

In the abyss of silence – service with a severing sideglance

Your presence is air, your silence is deafening and suffocating. For service oriented kinksters, a never ending dialogue occurs in absentia. The desire to be needed and relied upon extends to time present, and time away.  People who are service oriented thrive on seeing their efforts impacting others positively, are passionate about assignments and responsibilities, […]

Pretty cocky

It’s a dilemma many submissives face, how much of their personality to let shine through, how much control is too much control to asset within a D/s negotiation. The extremes are well known and often presented, slaves with no limits of any kind, and submissive who challenge through various forms of topping. In the middle, […]