I often hear submissives and bottoms troubled by the fact that they can’t take as much pain as other people they see playing. A good bit of what we do in this lifestyle involves some type of pain in some … Read More
Active submission means that a sub is actively engaged with their Dominant. This can be done though negotiation, scene planning, doing extra things above the expectations to make their Dominant happy. They understand that a dynamic is a journey and … Read More
Are people who take part in BDSM psychologically maladjusted?The Myth
For people inexperienced and otherwise uninitiated in kink, the BDSM lifestyle may seem surreal. While a person who would consider themselves as “vanilla” (not kinky) may enjoy some hair … Read More
A person who is Dominant or submissive in ‘real life’ will prefer a similar role in BDSMThe Myth
Personality Types and Their Roles in BDSM
I have heard the argument both ways, that Dominants and submissives are determined by … Read More
BDSM is all about pain and torture…The Myth
“Please water board me, please I need it” I have never even heard of anyone uttering these words. To some is supposedly BDSM is all about pain and torture. There are … Read More
Before engaging in impact play, there are a couple considerations, and some essential items to ensure safety as well as enjoyment.
As with any BDSM activity, start low and slow, especially with impact play. Sudden sharp blows without … Read More
largely understudied fetish, dacryphilia can often be broken down into 2-5 subcategories (depending on who you ask).
1.sexual arousal from someone displaying strong emotion
2.sexual arousal from the emotional release that accompanies crying (i.e., an emotional catharsis).
There are a … Read More