Whatever your kinks, your role, your current status, you will struggle. What did you expect?

I started into the lifestyle because i was complacent, allowing things i had determined as needs to go unfulfilled and desires to go unexplored. So it’s no surprise there will be days where we struggle, the amazing thing about BDSM is the research a resources that help to manage that struggle. 

Aftercare, self care, protocols, there’s so much in place to help us continue our journey. For a while i have felt compelled to slow down while i build these tools and i can share that the struggle, while it is real, is reduced by about 1000%. 

I find myself craving the struggle more again, i know i need to ease myself into it, but i am sharing that if you are in a similar position, it’s supposed to be there. At some point you embraced the struggle, it’s time to take a deep breath, close your eyes and jump back in.

These panties are a struggle for anyone, they require tying of ribbons repeatedly throughout the day and offer no… wiggle room of any kind.

That’s what makes these panties special 😉