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A Beginner’s Guide to Butt Plugs

This guide is designed to give you the basics of what to look for in a butt plug, mistakes to avoid, and helpful suggestions for ensuring success in discovering the joy of plugging up your butt. It is important to have real toys Here’s what to look out for and why: A flared base on […]

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A Beginner’s Guide to Aftercare

Aftercare is the recovery from a scene or play, where a set of actions help the mind and body relate to the change in physical and emotion energy expended. It is common for feelings of sadness or a sudden emotional response to occur in the hours, and sometimes days following a scene. Coming up with […]

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A Guide to Self Appreciation and Self Love

Self love and appreciation – A beginners guide to loving yourself In the era is social media, instant gratification is exponentially personified in likes, and comments, and just as quickly disappointment is magnified and self-doubt are amplified. In the context of BDSM, it is no different, but add to it an endorphin rush from a […]

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Anal Play with Toys for Beginners

This guide is designed to give you the tools required in order to begin having enjoyable anal play using sex toys. There are suggestions for how to select toys, how to properly and safely maintain them, and finally a guide for how to begin using and enjoying them. Before you begin Selecting your toy: Starting with […]

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A Guide to Impact Play

Before engaging in impact play, there are a couple considerations, and some essential items to ensure safety as well as enjoyment. Warm Up As with any BDSM activity, start low and slow, especially with impact play. Sudden sharp blows without warm up strokes is very rarely considered pleasurable by most SM standards and can also […]

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A Guide to Protocols

I love my protocols, I know it’s not a kink or a fetish, but it is so impactful to my every day routine that going without them is now a hard limit for me. Here are some considerations for creating protocols, a guide for Dommes and subs. What is a protocol A protocol is any […]